“If you want to know where to go, ask those coming back.” – Chinese Proverb

Years ago, I was making a documentary about the Wixaritari people in Mexico. As part of their ritual pilgrimage, they walk hundreds of miles to Wirikuta, their sacred land. I joined them on this journey, but it was clear that I was an outsider—an observer rather than a participant. Friendship seemed unlikely. Yet, the Marakame, their spiritual leader, said something that stayed with me: “We are Teokaris.”

Curious, I asked, “What does that mean?”

“Road companions,” he replied.

In that moment, I understood something profound. As road companions, we form a unique, if temporary, bond. We watch out for one another, share the journey, and find meaning in our shared path, even if our ultimate destinations differ. There’s solidarity, a fleeting but meaningful connection.

Walking the path of the guitar, you and I are also Teokaris. We might be on different roads, but for now, we share this journey together.

The concept of Teokaris—road companions—beautifully illustrates the journey of learning guitar. Just as the Wirraritari form bonds of solidarity on their sacred pilgrimage, guitarists too create meaningful connections as they navigate their musical paths. Whether seeking guidance from seasoned players or encouraging fellow learners, the spirit of companionship fosters growth, resilience, and a shared sense of purpose.

Seeking Wisdom from the Experienced

Guitar players, much like artists in any field, often hesitate to ask for advice, fearing it might expose a lack of knowledge or experience. However, the journey to becoming a skilled guitarist is not marked by solitary exploration but by the shared experiences within the community. Experienced players provide a treasure trove of insights, having navigated through common pitfalls and triumphs. By engaging with them, beginners and intermediates can avoid common mistakes and accelerate their learning process, turning advice into actionable steps towards improvement.

The Fear of Rejection and the Courage to Continue

It’s natural to feel disheartened or even embarrassed when someone refuses to share their knowledge or advice. Adults might react with frustration or anger, letting these setbacks hinder their progress. Yet, consider the perspective of a child: unaffected by rejection, they would likely giggle, dust themselves off, and continue their quest with undiminished enthusiasm. This child-like resilience is crucial for guitar players. After a refusal, the key is to keep strumming, singing, and seeking answers from the next available source.

The Power of Questions and Community

Asking questions does more than simply gather information; it builds connections within the guitar-playing community. These relationships are foundational to a musician’s development, providing not just answers but also opportunities for collaboration and inspiration. Moreover, the act of asking itself reinforces a culture of learning and mutual support among musicians, ensuring that the community thrives and evolves.

Conclusion

As we journey down the path of guitar mastery, let us remember the wisdom of Teokaris. Like the Wirraritari on their sacred pilgrimage, we are road companions—sharing knowledge, supporting each other, and finding meaning in the connections we build along the way. Whether asking for guidance, offering encouragement, or simply walking alongside one another, we create a shared journey that enriches us all. Together, as Teokaris, we turn the challenges of learning into opportunities for growth, and the road becomes as rewarding as the destination itself.